The Reflectere

Men and Control: When the Need to Manage Everything Is Actually Anxiety

The need for control in men is rarely about the things being controlled. It is almost always a response to anxiety — specifically, to the experience of uncertainty feeling unsafe. When a man’s internal sense of security depends on outcomes being predictable, environments being manageable, and other people behaving in expected ways, the drive to […]

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