Internal Family Systems (IFS)

There are No Bad Parts.

Do you feel pulled by parts of yourself in different directions?

Do you find yourself not in the drivers seat of your life often?

Are there moments you experience being directed by parts of yourself?

Discovering Freedom Within: The Transformative Benefits of Internal Family Systems (IFS)

IFS is built on the belief that every individual possesses a core essence called the Self, which is inherently compassionate, curious, and wise. Within each person’s mind, there exist various subpersonalities or “parts” that serve different roles, often developed as protective responses to life experiences and traumas. These parts can sometimes become extreme or polarized, leading to inner conflicts and emotional challenges.

How IFS can support you:

To develop a deeper understanding of yourself
Connecting more to Self energy of being curious, compassionate, calm, courageous, confident, creative, connected, and feeling clarity.
To learn to cultivate self-compassion and self-acceptance.
IFS can lead to deep emotional healing by addressing the root causes of distress and trauma.
As you develop a harmonious relationship with your parts and strengthen your Self, you experience significant positive changes in your life and relationships.

How Effective is IFS?

Numerous studies and clinical reports support the effectiveness of IFS as a therapeutic approach. Research suggests that IFS can lead to significant reductions in symptoms of anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Clients also report improvements in overall well-being, interpersonal relationships, and self-compassion.

How does IFS work?

IFS therapy involves a gentle and respectful exploration of one’s internal landscape. The therapist helps the individual establish a connection with their Self, encouraging self-compassion and non-judgmental understanding. The process typically includes the following steps:

Identifying Parts; The individual learns to recognize and name their various parts, understanding their unique roles and functions.
Unburdening Exiles; The therapist helps the individual safely access and process the emotions and memories carried by exiles, allowing them to heal and integrate into the Self.
Releasing Extreme Roles that Protectors have taken on; Managers and Firefighters may initially hold extreme roles within the internal system. As healing progresses, their roles can shift, allowing for more constructive and balanced functioning.
Cultivating Self-Leadership; Through IFS therapy, individuals strengthen their Self-leadership skills, enabling them to relate to their parts with compassion and wisdom.